Sex addict journal
There seems to be this idea that being a sex-addict is somehow wonderful; that being a sex-addict isn’t a real addiction like other addictions such as drink and drugs. That having sex constantly is something to be jealous of. Let me tell you now that this isn’t the reality of the situation. In reality, in normal life, having sex constantly can get you down. That’s right, I said it gets you down.
Take my last relationship for example: the sex was amazing. An average week went like this: sex when we woke up, followed by canoodling in the shower and then, every so often, sex again. After that we’d both head off to work, and the moment we were both home our clothes would be off and we would be at it. The weekends, most months, consisted of hardcore sex as often as four times a day. You just can’t keep that kind of intensity up forever. Something has to give.
One day I had to sit my girlfriend down and have a stern talk with her.
everything leads to sex of some kind. This means that you can’t have a simple conversation about sex without it turning into a free for all
“We need to calm down the sex, I think,” I said, “to five times a week at the most. I can keep up. I feel like it’s depressing me.”
She laughed at me and jumped me. In 5 minutes time we were both climaxing together. You could say it didn’t work.
And here’s my point: when you’re a sex addict, everything leads to sex of some kind. This means that you can’t have a simple conversation about sex without it turning into a free for all. Which means you never really address the issue.
Of course, I’ll never not be a sex addict. I’ll always need a fuck buddy — it’s just the way of the world like grass is green and water is wet and the sky is dark at night. But that’s not to say that I can’t learn to be a bit more normal. If there’s one thing I want to try and do in the future it is that.
As for my girlfriend, well, I don’t think she will ever change. But then again, would I like her if she did change? Probably, because how can you not love a woman who constantly wants sex? But still, it’d be good if I could calm my penis down sometimes. Due to all the sex, over half the time it feels like a raging hard stick on fire.
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